What seems like the best option at least for now is to block all comments from being posted. On any video I find. At least till I come up with something better. Or something changes. I'm going to see how that works then go from there. If anyone really has something to say to me then. They know how to contact me. This will at least cut some stress for me.
I already started blocking comments. Focusing on the most viewed and rated. I'll just trickle down by marking videos that randomly receive comments from there.